Nicole Villalpando writes about families in the Raising Austin blog and the Raising Austin column on Saturdays. She also offers a weekly and monthly family calendar at austin360.com/raisingaustin. She tweets at @raisingaustin.
Remember the wooden toys of your childhood? Now PBS Kids has launched a new line of wood vehicles that will be sold exclusively at Whole Foods Market. All the proceeds benefit PBS Kids, and Whole Foods will donate 1 percent of the total sales up to $25,000 to Whole Kids Foundation.
The My Little Scoot! line of wooden vehicles are handmade in Vermont from local wood. They sell for $7.99. They are all made with non-toxic, eco-friendly materials.
“PBS KIDS is known for creating fun, educational content that encourages kids to learn by exploring the world around them,” said Jeanne Tamayo, Whole Foods Market’s global lifestyle buyer. “And that’s the exact goal behind this new line of toys — to help our shoppers find new, exciting ways to teach their children through play. Whole Foods Market is proud to offer these toys to families exclusively this holiday season.”
Next week kids at about 55 area schools can get free flu vaccines through Health Kids.
Every elementary school in Hays, Manor, Pflugerville and Taylor school districts will be offered the shots. In Austin ISD, 12 schools are piloting the program. These are Blackshear, Brooke, Govalle, Jordan, Metz, Norman, Oak Hills, Overton, Pecan Springs, Sanchez, Sims and Zavala.
Have you gotten your child a flu shot yet? We go tomorrow for one kid and then we need to find a time to bring the other one. Here’s hoping our pediatrician’s office is stocked. Last we checked, they had flumist, which won’t work for one kid, but not the shot.
Remember when you had preschoolers and you used a sticker chart for good behavior? Well, we’re back to that sticker chart with my 11 year old. We’ve been butting heads a lot lately. I want her to do something. She wants me to stop nagging her. So, we have a sticker chart that include such items as Go to School, Go to School On Time, Shower, Brush Teeth, Get Dressed by Yourself, Do Homework …. those might seem very easy, but sometimes they’ve just very hard when you’re dealing with anxiety and arthritis.
So now she can earn 10 minutes of computer time for every job completed. She monitors her progress. She deducts 10 minutes when she makes a mess of nail polish all over the bathroom. And we don’t have to fight. She knows what’s expected of her each and every day.
A lot of surveys have been done about kids not doing chores. Usually they find that only about a fourth of kids have regular chores they do. Are you in the boat with the other 75 percent? We are.
We’ve tried a lot of things: tying allowance to chores, having a chore chart, having a list of jobs they can do to earn extra money, offering rewards after chores are complete. None of them have worked.
We don’t have bad kids. What we have is busy parents who forget to check on if the chores get done. Tired parents who at the end of the day don’t want to get in a power struggle over sweeping the floor. And broke parents who never seem to have the money promised. We also have kids who have unrealistic pay expectations. $20 to clean your room? Please!
So, what we have are kids who are happy to help, if it’s convenient to them and a job they want to do. Kitty litter? No way. Bathrooms, surprisingly OK, sometimes.
Anyone have a suggestion of what works, other than better parenting? Used a chart? Tied chores to screen time?
I actually have to say I’m not. Maybe, as a parent of an immune-compromised child, I should be, but I’ve got bigger fish to fry — like kids getting to doctor appointments and getting all their homework done.
Last night when we were checking the news online and read that ebola was in Texas, my 10-year-old turned to me and said, “This is how the zombie apocalypse starts.” I just had to laugh.
So are you worried about it? Or are you more worried about the respiratory virus Enterovirus D-68, which causes breathing trouble and paralysis.
Actually for my kids, I’m more worried about the common cold or the flu. Those things just tend to linger and get passed back and forth.
Really I can’t do anything about any of these, except tell my kids to wash their hands often, cough into their elbows, don’t drink after someone else and use a tissue to blow their noses. Of course, I can sign them up for the flu shot. One down, many more nasties to go.
Yesterday was the beginning of the Jewish new year and the holiday of Rosh Hashanah. Every year we debate as a family whether the kids can miss a day of school. Most year’s the answer is yes. It’s important to be together, to go to temple and to have a day of reflection. (Sort of like your day to make your New Year’s resolutions on Jan. 1).
Yesterday, both kids were out of school for the holiday. We went to family services and then went to the movies. Maybe that sounds unholy, but sitting in the theater on a school day, eating chips and queso and watching “The Maze Runner,” was exactly what we needed as a family to start the year off right. I could just be Fun Mom; not Nurse Mom who makes me take all my meds; not Homework Mom who nags me to get my work done; not Hygiene Mom who makes me wash my hands after I go to the bathroom or insists I take a shower.
Fun Mom is who we would love to be all the time, right? Yet, as a wise woman once told me, “If you’re not saying ‘No,’ 90 percent of the time, you’re not really doing your job as mom.”
So, if Rosh Hashanah is the one day a year where we all play hookey and enjoy one another, let it be so. Wishing all my Jewish friends a sweet new year, and for the rest of you, may you have a holiday as sweet as Rosh Hashanah was this year for us.
You might have told your children to not let the bed bugs bite, but this bed bug can feature a personal message from Mom and Dad.
The Original Bedbug stuffed animal allows you to record two 20-seconds greetings and one three-minute recording — a song, you reading your child’s favorite book, etc. Your child just squeezes the bug’s feet to hear the recordings. It’s perfect for when a parent has to go out of town. The Original Bedbug sells for $29.99 at originalbedbug.com.
“Relax-a-bye Baby,” by Mimi Sommers takes children through relaxation exercises. First they get comfortable, then they do a lion’s roar, then they wiggle their toes and feet and relax them. Eventually they move up the whole body until they are relaxed and starting to fall asleep. I think I might need someone to read this one to me. $17.95 from Angus Macgregor Books.
“Guardian of Dreams,” by Wendy Torrel is a beautiful book about how to get back to sleep after a nightmare. It’s the 10th anniverary of the book, which came out as a reaction to 9/11 after kids were still having nightmares and didn’t know how to deal with what they were feeling. It also includes some pre-reading and post-reading activities you can do with your children if they are having trouble with nightmares. $14.95 from White Tulip Publishing.