Some days it’s a total love/hate relationship with your children

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Ava Villalpando drops off felt-covered pillows at Austin Children's Services for her Girl Scout Bronze Award.

Yesterday started with me screaming at my daughter to get her @#% out of bed. Yesterday ended with me beaming about what a great kid she is.

That’s what parenting is like, right? It’s completely a ying-yang experience.

The very, very bad: After three days of being sick, Ava was having a great time staying at home and sleeping however late she wanted to. So, Thursday morning rolled around and she’s not moving. My husband tried for a half an hour. I tried. Finally after breaking into crazy mom screaming, she turned to me and in a very adult way said, “Mom, do you think you can calm down now? Because if you can calm down now and stop screaming, I will get out of bed and get dressed.” Oh, crud! I hate it when she’s more mature.

And so, she got out of bed. She got dressed and we made it to the bus with 30 seconds to spare. Why we needed to have so much drama to start the day, I don’t know.

Ava Villalpando drops off felt-covered pillows at Austin Children's Services for her Girl Scout Bronze Award.

Ava Villalpando drops off felt-covered pillows at Austin Children’s Services for her Girl Scout Bronze Award.

The very, very good: After school, I picked her up and we headed to Austin Children’s Services. She had spent three months working on a project for her Girl Scout Bronze Award. She led 60 other Girl Scouts in making no-sew pillows to donate to the shelter. She also collected hair brushes and baby wipes, which they never get enough of, as well as some toys for birthday presents. This kid who hates wearing her Girl Scout vest, proudly donned it and carried loads of goodies up to the shelter’s main office. She had a bounce in her step and a big smile across her face. She had taken on a project and she had done it!

On the way home, she made her plan for her next eight years of volunteering. She wants to volunteer in middle school with children and pets to complete her Silver Award Project as well as her bat mitzvah service hours. And then in high school, watch out; she’s got a Gold Award Project already kicking around in her head.

That’s when you say that the morning of screaming was worth it to have the afternoon of extreme pride.


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